On Dignity and Endurance
I think that disabled people endure injustice day by day. Maybe we all do. However, we are not stuck to a wheelchair, nor to painful therapy, due to medical error, or accident, or birth. For such people, the most common obstacles are sidewalks and schools lacking ramps.
They are stubborn to write, to become PhD-s in arts, to organize awareness events and to save the lives of other disabled people. Many times, they bring a new wave, authenticity, and it is just as their disability makes them see the world in a different light, a light we forgot about. As one of them says, "my philosophy is that, even if I am stuck to a wheelchair, I can enjoy life and what it offers me."
We have a lot to learn from such people. Maybe, to enjoy life, our health, the power we have onto others. I do not know why, but I think that, the more special you become by what you cannot do, due to a disease, or medical error, or having the misfortune of growing up in a bloody institution - the more you can resonate with the essential things in your life: the way you leave a trace on those around you, the way you help them.
On Monday night, there is the Gala of the Disabled People, organised by Motivation Romania and ActiveWatch. I have read about 47 very special people, who carry their suffering with a sort of a peace which is possible only by reaching revelations transcending the everyday life. Their stories are extraordinary. And they made me see my own life in a different light. It may sound pathetic. But I am bloody lucky. And so are you, who have the chance of enjoying two hands you can move and two legs you can use, because you are healthy.
We should better use this capacity to generate more well being around us. We could start with our families and colleagues.